Worked on the old bunkhouse yesterday. Got some good stuff done. Felt good. But pretty tired. Headed home.

“Hey, Dave, still lookin’ for high-floaters for your firewood?”

My neighbour and co-worker on the bunkhouse, Drake, had called out to inform me that he had a couple of ‘nice ones’ on the beach in front of his place. So, I drove around to have a look.

“Yep. Looks good. But I am tired now. And the tide is not high enough. I’ll do it tomorrow. Z’at OK with you?”

So the next day I arranged for Sal to come up to the bunkhouse at quittin’ time. She brought the peavey, some dogs and tow ropes and my chainsaw in her boat. We all met at the work site and then headed to the dock. Then we headed to the neighbour’s beach. Me in my boat. Sal in hers.

Of course our own dogs, Meg and Fid bounded along totally confused by having both boats present. They finally got in Sal’s little 12 foot Whaler.

The logs were about ten feet up the beach. Drake took the peavey and wrangled for a bit but eventually I cut it in half and a big chunk of log rolled into the sea. While I was standing there on the beach I saw an old sea-washed plank that had that ‘beach-look patina’ we all prize so much out here (I have no idea why). It was an old rough hewn 2 x 8, sixteen feet long. I tossed it in after the log.

“Yo, Sal, ya wanna get a ‘dog’ on ’em and stand off with your boat while we lever the next two pieces in?”

Sal was chatting with Drakes wife. Of course, they had to finish their conversation first. Our dogs were running around with their dog and had to be herded up and reloaded. Then Sal morphed into Relic the beachcomber and got to work.

She jumped in her boat and took off after the log we had just set loose. She got it. Then she leaned over the bow and hammered in a ‘dog’ (not Fid or Meg but a log dog, a thick, short and tapered spike with an ‘eye’ in the top to take a rope). After that, she tied on a line with a bowline and went for the plank. She repeated the process and had two large chunks of wood in tow.

“Let ’em float loose! We need you in close to shore now. Can’t get this one. Need you to tow while we lever it!”

So Sal let the two ‘dogged’ pieces go and slid in close to shore. She drove another ‘dog’ into the log end that was already in the water while Drake and I continued to work it from the beach end.

She tied a line to the ‘dog’ and fastened it to her forecleat. Then, slowly, she took up the slack. While still in reverse, Sally slowly cranked the throttle to full-tilt and, with our prying and levering, the big log started to slide into the water. The sea boiled as Sal’s 25 hp outboard roared for all it was worth and her boat skitted slightly left and right pulling on the log. A few minutes later we had three good logs and a big plank avec cachet all tied up and waiting for a tow to go home.

We waved goodbye and took the logs two miles down the coast to the lagoon behind our house. Sal towed two and I towed two. Took almost an hour. Once there we tied them up for later hauling up on the high-line. Probably tomorrow.

In the lagoon Sal leapt ashore and took all four of the lines. She tied them to the anchor we have and then nimbly jumped back in her boat. Fiddich mirrored her every move. We then took our boats to the dock and tied up.

“C’mon, Relic, I’ll make you a nice cup of tea.”

Community building is a tough job. Too hard for me. And community building in an area populated by individualists is an even tougher task than usual. The Discovery Sound area attracts the independent, individualist like rock concerts attracts Bic lighters. It is an area united by the principle of ‘let’s not get united!’

Lately, our neighbouring island, Quadra, has been up in arms over the moving of the old library into a new building. Fur has flown over that.

We on Read are not exempt from tempests in our teapots. We have our own community issues. But, because we are a smaller group and meetings are mercifully rare, things usually work out. The key is to let issues ‘flare out’.

The thing about these issues is that you never know which one is going to go ‘super nova’ on you. I am always surprised.

We had an issue some years back that still amuses me. “You in favour of free-range grazing or not?”

Turns out there were only two ‘domesticated’ and free ranging animals on the island (a horse and a cow) and one of them had already died by the time I was asked to state my opinion. I tried to demure but the question was still hanging in the air; “in favour or not?”

I admit to casting my vote for the remaining cow to have the freedom to mosey and moo. Fortunately, that was the majority opinion.

Politics, eh?

God! It feels good to be home!

I have never felt that way about any place before (well, a little, now and then but usually only after a long trip away from my own bed) because most places for me were just impermanent ‘apartments’ or even houses that were not accepted as the ‘ultimate’ long term residence, the real expression of who we were. Our real home had yet to materialize.

But, this loose-goosey-ness is in me mostly, not the places we were.

Sal is a bit different. She adapts and seems to be able to ‘settle in’ and make any place a home using some kind of feminine Feng Shui mysticism that is impossible to grasp conceptually or describe in words.

I swear: I could give Sal an old shipping container and put it in the local dump and within a day it would be so inviting you would want to live there! She is magic. It is truly an art.

Some of the places were very nice. I have always been a bit less than rooted, that’s all. It is in my nature.

Until now, that is. Now, my roots are deep. My roots are on a remote island. Who woulda thunk it?

I attended 13 different schools before I graduated and I skipped a grade! And that is only half of the ‘moves'(if that). That tells you something about my less-than-stable background. When Sal and I got together, we moved to live on sailboats for the next eleven years. Maybe that is not, in itself, overly nomadic but it is definitely not grounded (well, we grounded a few times but that is a whole other blog series: The Naval Years or maybe Lost at Sea).

Sally and I had ten more different homes (not counting marinas and RVs) over the next 40 years together. We must have some Bedouin blood (sounds familiar).

But it is not easy coming home. Logistics, don’t you know?

We have an old Pathfinder, one of the smaller SUVs. We packed it so solidly this trip that, by the time we left the last visited store, Sally had a huge cardboard box of groceries on her lap and a case of frozen dog food at her feet. Her seat had been moved forward so that some of the boxes of books we had for the community could be loaded on the floor behind her. I had tied most of the luggage that shared the backseat with the two dogs to the upper hand-holds by the doors so that they would not roll on to the dogs when I turned corners. Pipes were lashed to the roof. We had four large totes, a large cooler, a 50 pound bag of flour, a 3/4-size SS barrel, a Costco shop jammed in to the crevasses and, of course, our boots, some potted plants, jackets, lunch boxes and all the paper goods (TP, napkins, etc.) we would need for the summer.

We filled the boat when we loaded it at the beach late that afternoon (around 6:00 PM). Thank God the seas were calm! We had been on the road since 9:30 AM and still had two hours of loading and house-starting-up procedures to get through.

We had a dinner of cottage cheese, avocados and a quick-steak at 9:30 and then went back to packing more stuff away. The fridge is full. The freezer is jammed! The cupboards are definitely NOT bare.

Whew!

With a bit of luck we will never have to leave again.

Back in Victoria. Ben and Katie took us to Mothers Day brunch complete with flowers, tattooed waitresses and the iconic photos of Marilyn Monroe on the walls. It was a good albeit short visit but we got to meet two of their new friends, Al and Kelli. Old-time buddy, Ryan, was there, too. It was not only a time for ‘Mother’ but it was also, perhaps, the first time we were surrounded by Ben and his friends and everyone was ‘adult’. You know, mature, civilized, socially adept and very pleasant to be with. Hard to explain……

It may have been just the slight but very much appreciated ‘deference to the old people’ that I was sensing. Whatever.

Ben’s into motorcycles. He just bought a trials bike in Powell River and was leaving to go pick it up immediately after brunch. He bought an old Dodge Van to make the trip and carry the prize home. It’s second hand in the extreme. The bike is also pre-owned and comes sans lights, horn and even a seat. It is lean like a gazelle and as sure-footed as a mountain goat. It is the new model of the old Sherpa Trials bike I am familiar with. It is called a Sherco. Trials riding is all about balance and maneuverability. Weight: approximately 200 pounds. Cost:$3000 or $15.00 a pound.

The Dodge van is all about expedience and affordability. It weighs 3500 pounds and can barely get out of it’s own way. It’s a cross between a pig and a lame hippopotamus. Neither quick nor nimble, it leaks and squeals and is somewhat reluctant to get on the road. It cost $700 and that works out to $0.20 cents a pound.

Advantage: the van, of course! It already has a mattress in the back. And the bike threatens the possibility of our becoming grandparents. The van suggests otherwise. It has a tendency to seek out parking spaces. Vivré le Dodge Ram van.

I’m gonna install ‘mood lights’ under the dash!

Today is one of our semi-annual Costco runs. We get a gallon pail of Tinactin, a half a ton of rice or some ludicrous supply of something or the other all in preparation for our upcoming years away from stores. This is one of the two ‘provisioning trips’ per year and we try each time to find something to buy that will last a few years or more. At one point (7 years ago) I had more Listerine than scotch! As soon as Crest Toothpaste makes a thirty pounder, we are on it!

Some things we can’t buy the large version of – like Bran Flakes. Too light. To get the amount I need – and in keeping with our shopping philosophy, – I would need a Bread van full. Somethings you just have to buy like a normal person. Sometimes, however, we step outside the normal box. We don’t need Preparation H but I’d pick up a ten pound tube if they had one on sale. That would fit with the ‘shopping plan philosophy’, you see.

I’d prefer to shop like Ben.

Cheap Richmond hotel. Alarmed awake each morning by jumbos taking off directly overhead and traffic screeching and roaring nearby. Grab the schedule and pick up the pace while merging into pedestrian and vehicular traffic and trying to remember landmarks. Can’t see ’em. Everything has changed.

Breakfast is a hotel lobby buffet blur of tastlessness and foreign strangers subtly competing for the few five-minute sit-and-chew chairs. The streets of Richmond clogging the arteries to the Vancouver cubicles-in-the-sky with the desperately working-to-keep-up with their property values.

Lots of new cars, tho.

The commuters stay awake by listening to the radio shows pump lies, propaganda and ‘traffic-on-the-fours’ (which means the traffic news is updated every ten minutes at 4 minutes past the hour, fourteen minutes past the hour and so on). Everybody is late. They all seem anxious.

What’s not to like?

Admittedly this bleak view of city life is partly just my own perspective. I haven’t had to move this fast in years. Well, months anyway. I was down here in the land of industrial hockey last November but I must have had some latent aggression to work out because I tended to merge better, drive faster, park quicker and hear less of the din back then. Today? Well, today is a bit like sensory overload. Gotta hone some skills. Fast.

We’ll adjust. It will just take a bit longer I guess. Or maybe I’ll try to find a friendly drug dealer and score some ‘speed’. Shouldn’t be too hard judging by the few face-averting pedestrians who are loitering and not zipping about. Most of them wear ‘hoodies’ and stand at the junction of several streets and lanes. Must be like a secret-language sign that says, ‘Get your red hots here!” But I could be wrong. There are too many of them to all be drug dealers. Some must be buyers.

But urban adjustment is necessary. Really. Put another way: When I checked in two nights ago, Maggie the receptionist said, “Oh HI, Mr.Cox. Nice to see you again.”

“Well you’ve stayed here before and you and your wife are amongst the only ones who ever talk to me. You know? Like a person. It just doesn’t happen much at all anymore. People just exchange their names and Visa numbers. So, I remember the few who actually talk with me very easily.”

Harsh. This lady must see hundreds of people every day. She is young, Chinese and very pleasant. And no one, it seems, takes the time to talk with her. What has it come to, eh?

I guess I’ll never adjust. I talk too much.

I prefer option B, anyway. Sal is on the phone booking a ferry for later today. Retreat is a perfectly honourable course of action when faced with overwhelming force and we have always believed in discretion being the better part of valour. Now we know what it means.

Translated: get out! GET OUT NOW!!

AAAAAaaaaaaarrrrrrrrggggghhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!

Before this blog I would occasionally write a long e-letter to my friends updating my current state of existence. Nobody asked for it and in one case with a close friend of mine who is a busy lawyer, I was specifically asked to stop doing it! I ignored him and still send to his ‘spam filter’ instead.

Still, the e-mail letter seemed like a friendly thing to do and it helped keep the e-mail tubes well-lubricated even if some of them were just: “Please remove my name from your list” messages.

I’m not fat. I just have thick skin.

But even amongst the still-friendly, they were not always well received. “Geez, Dave, got your e-mail. Pretty long. Read some of it but decided to call you instead. I’m worried. What were you saying in that diatribe anyway? By the way, how’s Sal? The dogs? Did you know your last missive on the China Monologues was 54 pages?

So, I got the message and made them shorter. But that didn’t always work either. “Hey, Dave, got your e-mail. Didn’t say enough. Which is a good thing, actually. What’s up with (fill in the blank) and when you comin’ down? I’ll probably be out of town then.”

So then I figured I’d keep it short but frequent by way of a blog. “That oughta keep ’em happy!”

My father in law told me he wasn’t happy.

“When you wrote the long e-mails, I would print them out and pretend they were like personal letters, ya know? But then you went all ‘sound bite’ on me and we just get these snippets. Doesn’t feel as personal. No intimacy. Where’s the love, man?” (OK, I am playing a bit fast and loose with my 87 year-old father-in-law’s steeped-in-Stilton, British-ships-captain way of speaking but you get the idea).

The point: seems size has something to do with it after all. Too short seems less than satisfying and too long seems a bit tedious. Hard to get it just right. (double entendres intended)

It is hard to keep even some of the people happy all of the time. So I am hoping to just keep some of the people happy some of the time. Push comes to shove – I’ll accept just one of the people happy enough to stick around (Sal) most of the time.

And, if politics is anything to go by, I only need 40% of the people onside once every four years. And bald-faced, non-stop lying will do that for you it seems.

Maybe I am in the wrong line of business………………..?

Came south a couple of yesterdays ago. Campbell River to Victoria by way of Lantzville and Duncan. Felt like a trek. Weird. It used to be that I’d drive as much as 500 miles in one long, hard day. Now, four hours on the Island Highway feels like a major ‘haul’. Age, eh?

Stayed at Patti’s Oceanfront B&B the night before last after leaving the island that day. Patti’s is located on the entrance slope of the lower Island highway leading into Campbell River just before the public wharves. Patti is great (and so is the breakfast)!

The B&B overlooks Discovery Sound and is beautifully appointed. Plus she likes dogs and seems to tolerate me well enough. Tís a rare establishment that welcomes us as warmly as Patti does.

Oceanfront is highly recommended although she is threatening to close up this year. After 12 years of hosting the road-weary, the business has lost some it’s luster and she is contemplating freedom.

Can’t blame her in the least.

As you likely know, I am not pleased with the election results. In fact, I am appalled. And I confess to having been slightly ‘bummed’ by it until we arrived in Lantzville, the little hamlet just North of Nanaimo.

Went there for the soap. A British importer there brings in Imperial Leather at exorbitant prices but Sal won’t use anything else and her lovely complexion proves her point. So, we drive for four hours or so and buy Imperial Leather soap in Lantzville. Now THAT is love.

Just before we got there I was at the gas station getting ready to fill the car when a woman around 45 or 50 presented at the pumps wearing an old brown, shapeless, puff-ski jacket like the kind we used to wear in the seventies. She was the owner, very pleasant and offered to pump the gas for us. This was a full-service station despite having only two pumps (one of them diesel). And she asked ‘how I was’ in that typical way store-owners greet customers.

“Bummed all to Hell. Bastards got in. This country is mad. Harper is a totalitarian dictator whose last acts in power gained us a 35 billion dollar fleet of fighter jets and a citing for contempt of parliament. This country is going to hell in a handbasket with that George Bush clone at the helm.” And then I frowned at her to show my displeasure.

“Well, she said, it is a lot better than where I came from. Just be glad the socialists didn’t win. Can’t have that! That’s just a step away from communism!”

“Whoa! Where did you come from?”

Romania. My husband came here years ago and had to dodge bullets in the process of leaving. No passport. No visas. But he got here. Finally he got enough to send for us and we came to live in Canada about twenty years ago. It is heaven here. I can buy fresh produce any time I want. We raised our kids here. Own our own business. It is safe. Canada is way better than Romania and any communist country. But I see it getting more communistic every day. We have to be careful not to let that happen!”

We talked for awhile. She was very nice. Their story was a hellish one involving near starvation, police state bullying and all the crap we read about. But they lived it. She had ‘cred’.

“OK”, I said. “I’ll shut up. You win any political discussion. I am basically happy and content and also spoiled rotten. Romania is too harsh for me. No more complaints!”

Some perspective gained in Lantzville. Who woulda guessed?

But the lessons didn’t stop there. Dropped in for a quick visit to a friend living near Duncan. He’s not working much due to a few health issues but his mind is still extremely creative and inventive. He likes to create quasi-practical things that serve his living needs. Some are his own idea, some are ‘cutting edge ideas of others’ but mostly it is a mish-mash of both.

His forte’ is applying scientific principles and processes to made-from-scraps-and-garbage-prototypes. He makes Rube Goldberg seem like a precise engineer-cum-technician! He is currently distilling Buytenol (spelling?) from grass clippings by using special yeasts and algae brewing in old pails and salvaged pipes and tubes. The goal? To power his own vehicle! And not to get kicked out of his neighbourhood by the neighbours……….

Don’t laugh! He have me a liter bottle of fuel! Value: $1.30 by Esso standards. Cost to him (other than the scrounging) $0.00! OK, maybe the gas to run the lawn mower. But, still…………

Man, I have great friends!

“C’mon, man. Fess up. Can’t be that great all the time!?”

No. Of course not. We have our troubles, our times of strife. Sal and I – like everyone – have walked barefoot on the sharp rocks of hardship and pain. There’s a dark side to our story. It is only natural.

She burned the toast once! (Swear to God!) The really hard part? She didn’t seem to care that much! It is at times like that I wonder who I married?

But we got through it.

A few times, I have been less than joy personified to be around. No, honest. Word up! Really. But, that always passes. Now? Now I am like sunlight in pants!

Of course there are the to-be-expected disappointments one simply can’t avoid: a clam shell with no clam in it, a picture in the camera that is too blurry to make out, a scrape or a bump on the knee. But, into every life a little clam has to come up empty now and then. Know what I mean? We can handle it.

With a little help from our friends.

The key: focus on the good stuff. Let the little stuff go. And put a sign on the fridge that says, ‘watch the toast!’.

Sal finished stuffing the chicken, put it in the oven and grabbing the timer, came outside with me. It was about 3:30 pm. Two minutes later, she was down on the beach choking logs. We pulled up five before the timer went off and she climbed back up the hill, went in the house and checked the chicken. Twenty more minutes were put on the timer. Down the hillside she went and another log came up.

Now THAT is multi-tasking!

A few blogs back somebody (anonymous) asked, “How come Sal comes out best every time?”

Now you know. A dozen Julia Roberts can’t compete with that. Hell, Paul Bunyan can’t compete with that!

When the logs were done, we went in, had a nice glass of wine and Sal served a lovely roast chicken, potatoes and Greek salad.

It does not get any better than that!

The old, Rube Goldberg winch is great! Slow……damn slow…….but great! Takes 20 minutes to pull up a log. Somehow Sal and I stay busy while a log is slowly crawling up the hill but don’t ask me what we do……

Sal (between log #3 and #4) went over to our neighbour’s dock and checked on their boat to ensure that the recent rains hadn’t added too much to the bilge. After that log was unloaded, she dragged a couple of distant logs (by water) to the ‘lifting’ area while I rolled a couple of others from the land into the water that a higher tide had lifted dry).

We are just ‘busy’. Hard to explain.

Up comes the logs. Little things go wrong. We fix ’em. Or we do a small chore. Grind, grind, grind………..unload the log. Wrap the lines, send the hitch back down……..head off to ‘do something’ while Sal sets the choke and up comes another.

Cook dinner. Add wine to taste.

Repeat as necessary.

A recipe for happiness. Serves two very well.

Meant to tell you: I posted pics of the old winch assembly I spoke of two blogs back titled: Junk.

Finished the concrete work today. We built the ‘wall’ on the flat strip of ‘footing’ you saw in the last blog. The wall is only 14 inches high but it is 31 feet long and so we mixed and poured a lot of concrete. Everything is now setting up for the structure that we will build a week or so from now. It is good to see the little foundation done. Not a BIG deal but it is really the BIGGEST part of the project.

We hope.

The roof tie-in is still a bit of an unknown but we’ll figure it out.

The mail plane came late today so even tho I quit the job site at 3:00, I had to wait until the mail was sorted out at the floating post ofice before coming home. I waited in the floating freight shed with a dozen floating others. So, we hobnobbed for awhile.

After a bit the school was let out and so we watched the young moms and their kids pile into small boats and head off in different directions. Kinda neat, really.

Then I came home and fueled the boats and came up to the house for a cuppa tea. Fed the raven. He took cheese from my hand this time. I was sitting on the deck in a chair with Megan-the-lamb-who-was-born-a-dog sitting to my immediate left. The raven approached cautiously on the deck. Walking sideways and keeping a wary eye on Meg, he sidled up and snatched the cheese from my fingers. Twice. Meg didn’t move.

I would have liked a picture of that.

The raven doesn’t like cameras. Can’t get a pic if the raven sees the camera. We can’t even get a pic if the raven is outside and the camera-person is inside taking it. The raven knows.

It’s Friday night. The week is over. Work is done for awhile. Tomorrow we start pulling up logs from the beach. TGIF!